First ever inter-Dream Centre Quiz Contest!

On Friday, 8th July, all the girls from our 4 Dream Centres descended on Bal Mandir for our first ever inter-Dream Centre Trivia Quiz Competition. Each Centre selected 4 competitors to represent them. With Diwakar (facilitator in Baneshwor Centre) and Kamal (facilitator in our Wiley Dream Centre) playing Quiz Masters for the day and Bipana from the new Gyaneshwor Wiley Women’s Dream Centre playing the role of score keeper, the day got off to a great start. Cheered on by their fellow Dream Centre girls, the teams battled it out on questions ranging from Nepali history to child rights.

After a close competition, the MLC Dream Centre won followed by the Gyaneshwor Wiley Women’s Dream Centre team. Well done to all the girls! They all played very well.

It was great to get all the girls from the 4 centres together to swap stories and to meet new friends. We hope to make this a regular event. Thanks to Diwakar for taking the lead on this and to all the facilitators for their organisation and participation. A great example of the power of strong team work! 

St Cath's models leadership and motivation in the Dream Centres

From Bec in Kathmandu:


Our friends from St Catherine’s in Waverley sent another wonderful group of 12 girls from years 10 and 11 to spend a week in our Dream Centres recently. The girls were accompanied by teachers Sarah Hatch (who was returning for the second year) and Julie Park (who was on her first trip) and by Mitrataa board member, Sarah Bartram. After a few days trekking, the girls went straight to work attending our Dream Centre Picnic for all our recent and past Dream Centre graduate girls. We had almost 100 girls on the day which got off to a great start with lots of games organised by the St Cath’s girls. We then had a slight mishap as a huge storm rolled in and we sheltered under the marquee. The girls engaged in some singing games as the mud rolled down the hill and through our sheltering place. As the roof collapsed for the second time, we decided it was time to move everyone to the buses where we continued with some singing including the teaching of Home Among the Gum Trees and some Nepali classics. After our improvised bus party, the rain cleared and we all headed back for some well-deserved lunch followed by an afternoon of ball games. At 3pm everyone loaded onto the buses exhausted but having made some great new friends and had lots of fun. These picnics, as well as being a great opportunity for our girls to interact with the Australian volunteers and practise their English, are a rare day for the girls to just be kids and run around and enjoy themselves. Many of the girls in our Dream Centres are domestic workers who do not often get a chance to relax and enjoy themselves like this.

The team from St Cath’s then ran a workshop on leadership in each of our 3 Dream Centres. This is one of the most difficult life skills for the girls to grasp so it was fantastic for them to have some interesting and varied new activities to practise with. The girls started with a game of “Guess the Leader” before brainstorming leadership qualities and examples of great leaders. They then identified their own strengths and leadership qualities to share with the group.  They then settled in for some reading aloud before finishing with a game of Human Knots which is always popular.

On the Saturday, we held a combined session for all our most recent graduates from the 3 Centres at the Wiley Dream Centre in Chandol on the very important topic of Motivation, another one of our crucial life skills. Watching both the St Cath’s girls and our Dream Centre girls grow in their confidence over the week together was inspiring and is what I love the most about these programs. Some fantastic friendships were made and there were some tears as the groups farewelled each other.

For their last day, St Cath’s group hosted a trivia competition for classes 1-10 at Riviera, our Model School, to free the teachers for a training session (more on this shortly). It was a good opportunity for the volunteers to see a different type of school where students’ English and general knowledge is far better than those in the Dream Centres who are studying in government schools which teach in Nepali. Their energy on this last challenging day was fantastic.

We always enjoy having the St Cath’s girls here and this year was no exception. Their energy and enthusiasm for trying new things and dealing with difficult situations not only inspired me but really impacted the Dream Centre girls. Thanks to Sarah Hatch and Julie Park for leading the group and to the girls for their wonderful work. We look forward to continuing to grow our relationship with St Cath’s.


More photos can be found on our facebook page.  

It’s not only our Nepali girls who achieve their dreams!

From Bec in Kathmandu...


Tori McCarten and Amelia Baker from Lithgow, NSW, are true leaders – they were inspired by a challenge I set when I gave a presentation at Women’s College last May. I challenged all the girls present to follow their dreams and to step forward and take action to change the world. By the time Tori and Amelia had reached home on the train, they had made the decision to come to Nepal and recently they took 2 weeks out of their busy Year 12 schedule to come to Nepal and work with Mitrataa and fulfilling that dream. They were accompanied by Jo Reeves. The trio began by attending the Dream Centre graduations where they taught the girls Incy Wincy Spider which was a popular choice! They spent some time with the girls at Bal Mandir teaching them volley ball, they stepped in to help facilitate the Fashion Workshops when our fashion expert fell ill.

Then their true colours shone through when they ran 3 workshops for a mixed group of our girls – 3 girls from each of our Dream Centres, 3 of our Project Snow Leopard girls and around 8 of the girls who are studying at Riviera, our Model School. The workshops were run at Riviera for 3 half days. The first was on “Accepting and Understanding Yourself” and the girls learned about how to respect and like yourself for your star qualities. The next workshop was based around team work and, with a game of basketball and writing of poems, the group really cemented some new friendships. The final workshop was “Creative Story Telling” and the girls wrote some fantastic stories in groups, practising their teamwork skills from the previous workshop. We’ll be publishing some of these stories on our website shortly. All of our Mitrataa girls loves the workshops and came away with new confidence, new inspiration and having had a lot of fun!

I am really proud of Tori and Amelia for following their dream. They definitely faced some challenges in Kathmandu but they really stepped up and I know they had a huge impact on a lot of people during their time over here. Thank you, guys. You were amazing! Keep dreaming big!

 

Dream Centre Graduations Galore!

Posted by Bec from Kathmandu...


I love Graduation Days at the Dream Centres – the excitement of the girls, the sharing of their experiences, their dreams for the future and the celebratory songs and dances never fail to put a smile on my face and this latest batch was no exception. The fifth batch from our Baneshwor Dream Centre graduated on Thursday 31st March. Joined by volunteers Tori, Amelia and Jo, I was inspired by the energy and enthusiasm of the girls. There were 2 highlights for me of this graduation – the drama which the girls did on “Appreciating Differences”, one of the core Life Skills we teach them. It was about a disabled girl who was not in the Dream Centre and was teased by the other children. Some of the girls stood up for her. The girls ended the drama by requesting that Mitrataa ensure that we include disabled girls in our next batch to lead by example. I love this challenge to us! We definitely have some budding Bollywood stars in this batch too. The other highlight was watching the girls teach the volunteers a dance. Their patience and energy was infectious. The Australian girls then taught the girls Incy Wincy Spider with the actions and I was amazed at how quickly they picked it up. Credit to our facilitators for this Centre, Bipana and Diwakar, who have done a wonderful job with this batch.

This was a hard act to follow but the third batch of girls from the Wiley Dream Centre did a wonderful job at their graduation on Friday 1st April. This was the weakest batch of students we have taken into our Centres and our facilitators at this Centre, Ganga and Kamal, did an amazing job with building up the confidence of these girls. Some of the girls who stood and shared their experiences were so shy when they first joined the Centre that it was a while before they spoke at all. Now they stood in front of their family and friends and spoke with a new found belief in themselves and their dreams for the future, sharing the lessons they had learned and the skills they would take forward into their lives. They can now do anything!

The very first batch of graduates from the MLC Dream Centre really went out with a bang at their graduation day on Wednesday 6th April. This group has an amazing energy and passion for their futures and their graduation reflected this with songs, dance and expressions of gratitude – one of the core Life Skills we focus on in the Centres. Ruby and Sabita, our facilitators in this Centre, have had a huge impact on these girls – from teaching them meditation skills to help them get control of their minds, to inspiring one of the girls to sing a solo at the graduation ceremony, the difference in the girls is wonderful. Most of the girls in this Centre are domestic workers and it was lovely to see several of their guardians/employers attend the ceremony, 2 of them sharing their experiences of the changes in the girls’ behaviour and approach to school since they joined the Dream Centre program.

Welcoming these new graduates to the network of Dream Centre Graduates was a pleasure! I look forward to keeping in touch with them as they visit the Centre every month to share their progress towards their dreams. Keep dreaming, girls!

Sincere thanks to Wiley and MLC for sponsoring a Dream Centre. You have changed the lives of so many girls already, with many more to come!

Our next batches of girls will start at the Centres in late April. 

MLC back in Kathmandu Part 4

The day after the fun and excitement of the Dream Centre picnic, the MLC group spent the afternoon at the Wiley Dream Centre in Chandol.

Prior to the trip, a number of senior students from the school had prepared a Dream Book which contained a series of activities designed to assist the Dream Centre students with the life skills component of the program. The MLC girls split up into groups and worked with girls from the Wiley and Baneshwor Dream Centres through the books. As always there was time for some crazy games such as ‘amoeba’, and also some snack boxes for lunch.

It was a fantastic afternoon and gave each girl in the MLC group the chance to really get to know some of the amazing girls we work with here in Nepal. It gave the Dream Centre girls the opportunity to work on their English and to share their thoughts and ideas with their peers in the wider world.

The following day was the final day of MLC’s program and it was time to open the MLC Dream Centre!

The school had raised the funds to sponsor a new Dream Centre including the running costs for the next 2 years. The centre is located in Koteshwor and when we arrived there were 20 excited girls from the local school eagerly waiting to start their Dream Centre experience.

After group leader, Rosemary King, cut the official ribbon so that we could enter the centre, Bec and Chetana led the group through introductions and some welcome speeches. The Nepali girls were shy and a little nervous of course but the MLC students showed the way and before long everyone was laughing and enjoying themselves. We had arranged for 2 girls each from our two other Dream Centres to come and give short speeches on the things they learned from the program. This was a really inspiring moment to see these girls stand so confidently and share their experiences. One of the girls’ mothers also came to talk about the changes she had seen in her daughter and how proud she felt of her achievements.

Brittany, one of the MLC students, performed a beautiful rendition of ‘Hands’ by Jewel. Standing up to sing, unaccompanied, in front of a room full of strangers is not easy and you could see how impressed the Nepali girls were. The local school principal then gave a short speech, the MLC girls gave a wonderful combined presentation with many inspiring messages for the Nepali girls and Bec spoke about the journey these girls were about to embark upon and the importance of having dreams.

After some quick votes of thanks it was time for the party to begin, starting with a special layered sponge cake decorated for the occasion, and cut by Rosemary on behalf of the MLC group. There were also cookies and plenty of soft drink. The MLC girls also presented a number of beautiful big blankets that had been made by students from the school back in Sydney. As we come into winter in Nepal these will be well used! The group also presented some pencil cases fully equipped with pens, pencils and all the things the Dream Centre girls will need to get the most from their studies.

Our immense gratitude and thanks must go to Rosemary, the MLC girls who visited us in Nepal, the wider MLC family who all contributed to this trip and made the MLC Dream Centre a reality, and especially MLC’s principal, Ms Barbara Stone, who personally donated the remaining funds to get the centre started. We look forward to sharing the updates with you of the ways in which the centre will no doubt change the lives of many girls in Nepal.

 More photos from the MLC Dream Centre opening can be found on our facebook page.

MLC back in Kathmandu Part 3

The final part of the MLC group’s program in Nepal was working with our Dream Centre girls and culminated in the opening of the MLC Dream Centre.

For the first day we took around 60 graduates from the Dream Centre program to Thangkot for an activities day and picnic. This provided a great chance for the MLC girls to get to know the Nepali girls in a fun and relaxed environment. Breakfast was served as soon as we arrived at the park and then everyone was allocated a team number. It was then straight into team building activities with the first being a getting to know you game in which each team member had to learn the name, age, school and favourite hobby of each of their team mates. Once these new connections had been made the groups had to choose a team name which always brings some fun and unusual results!

The first ‘serious’ activity of the day involved each team having to design an outfit made entirely of newspaper and dress one team member in it. We gave each team some small strips of crepe paper to add a little colour and the craziness began. We saw everything from dresses, skirts and shoes to handbags, watches and earrings! The girls had so much fun and really had to work as a team to achieve a good result. It was a good chance to illustrate how creative you can be even with minimal and inexpensive resources. They knew the stakes were high as there was to be a fashion parade with prizes for the best outfits. Once all of the entrants were complete we lined them up on a pathway in the park and had everyone else stand on each side and then the girls paraded their teams’ designs up and down the ‘runway’. We had everyone clicking the cameras furiously to create the fashion parade effect and the entire group were in stitches of laughter. Winners were chosen, the prizes (chuppa chups and chocolates) were presented to the winning teams and everyone was congratulated on a fantastic effort and some great entertainment!

With no time to rest the groups were then split with half going to play ball games while the other half played a crazy version of fruit salad. All of these games had been prepared and were led by the MLC girls. The ball games – captain ball, tunnel ball and under/over – were complete chaos as the teams frantically raced to be the fastest. Fruit salad was not much better with the numbers hidden in a ‘story’ so that the girls really had to listen carefully to see if their number was called. At times it was hard to tell whether games were being played at all or whether there were just 70 girls running around screaming – the sign of a great program!

By now with the sun high in the sky the girls were thoroughly exhausted and it was time to sit and enjoy some dahl bhat for lunch. This was the que for some very well-fed looking dogs to start hanging around, but they didn’t have much success as everyone ate all of their lunch and many went back for seconds.

Now replenished it was time for all the groups to come together for some larger games such as ‘bang’ and bull rush. I don’t know how the MLC girls or the Dream Centre girls had the energy but they went on running, screaming and laughing for another 2 hours. I think they would have continued into the evening but as the shadows began to grow longer it and the day became cooler it was time to return to the buses for the trip back to Kathmandu. No doubt all involved would sleep well that night!

The day was a great success and a fantastic opportunity for the MLC group to meet Nepali girls from a variety of different backgrounds and see the importance of programs such as the Dream Centres’ ‘skills for learning, skills for life’.

To be continued…

Dream Centres Graduation - Part 2

Last Friday (1^st October) we attended the graduation of the second group of girls from the Wiley Dream Centre in Chandol, Kathmandu. The program was also attended by our volunteer from Scotland, Katya and her daughters, Fern and Clover.

We were taken through the afternoon’s proceedings by 2 girls from the centre acting as MCs, one announced everything in Nepali and the other in English. They had obviously prepared a great deal and they did themselves proud on their big day.

To begin with, each of the girls stood up and introduced themselves in English. This was a huge deal for these girls as many of them struggle with English at school and it was the first time they had to stand in front of others and speak. They all did exceptionally well and it set the tone for an inspiring and happy occasion.

After a speech from the head of the local community group who have provided us with the room for the centre, and a quick speech from me, it was Fern’s turn to wow everyone by giving a short speech she had prepared in Nepali. Both Fern and Clover have been studying at Riviera, our Model School, and the Nepali classes were clearly helping!

It was then time for the serious business of the afternoon – prize giving! Awards were presented in the following categories: Highest Star Achiever, Best Performance, Best Improvement, Most Creative, Most Co-operative, Highest Attendance, Best Speaker and Best Speller. The winners were presented with a special note book and a badge recognising their achievement.

We then presented each of the graduating girls with a certificate and their memory book which they had been working on over the 6 month course. This was a touching moment for these girls and there were a few tears.

Last order of business was the food. Snack boxes were distributed and everyone mingled and shared in the wonderful achievements of this group of girls. It wasn’t long too before the music started and some impromptu dance performances began. As the afternoon drew to a close it was again truly inspiring to reflect on the progress these girls had made and exciting to think of where they will go with their new found skills and confidence.

Thanks must go especially to John Wiley & Sons for their sponsorship of this Dream Centre.

Dream Centres Graduation - Part 1

Last Thursday and Friday we attended graduations at the Baneshwor and Wiley Dream Centres. It was the third group of girls to graduate from the Baneshwor centre and the second group from the Wiley centre.

In Baneshwor, the girls opened the program with a special Dream Centre song they had prepared. It was a fantastic start to the afternoon. I filmed it and will be posting it on our YouTube channel soon. The song was followed by some short speeches prepared by the girls to share their experiences of attending the Dream Centre. The girls spoke with such confidence and conviction and it was inspiring to see how they had grown since starting this journey.

It was then time for the serious business of the afternoon – prize giving! Awards were presented in the following categories: Maximum Star Achiever, Best Speaker, Good Discipline, Most Creative, Very Helpful, Highest Attendance, Best Improvement and Most Active. The winners were presented with a special note book and a badge recognising their achievement.

Both Bec and I then gave quick speeches, focusing on how proud of the girls we were and encouraging them to continue to reach for the stars in everything they do. We also told them about an upcoming picnic they would be attending as part of the visit from MLC School. This sent a frenzy of questions through the room and they could then concentrate on nothing else!

Time for further presentations finally calmed everyone down. Chetana presented each of the graduating girls with a certificate and their memory book which is a collection of activities they had completed during their time at the centre. It was wonderful to see all their hard work recorded in such a way that they will always be able to refer back to it if they need inspiration.

This was followed by speeches from each of the facilitators – Sabita and Bipana – who as well as congratulating the girls, directed their words to the parents who had attended. They stressed the importance of family support and that the parents should be very proud of their daughters and all they had achieved and will continue to achieve. It was fantastic to see that 8 parents had attended the program, showing support for their daughters. Many of them begged us to take their daughters for another 6 months but we stressed that it was important the girls did not become dependent on the centre, they now had the skills to move forward on their own.

The program concluded with a delicious snack box for everyone and unfortunately lots of tears from some of the girls. I guess this showed they really enjoyed their Dream Centre experience!

I will post about the Wiley Dream Centre graduation shortly …

  

2nd Wiley Run for a Dream

Last weekend I traveled to Singapore to take part in the second Wiley Run for a Dream.

Last year the team from John Wiley & Sons’ Singapore office raised SG$12,500 for Mitrataa which was used to establish the Wiley Dream Centre, our second Dream Centre situated in Chandol in Kathmandu.

This year they set their sights even higher. So at 7am on Sunday morning (19^th September) I arrived at East Coast Park in Singapore to join the eager group who were taking part in either a 10km run, 5km run or 5km walk. It was fantastic to see so many people come out to enjoy the fun, a number of companies helped through sponsorship of the event and they had sent representatives to run with the group too.

I joined the 10km run group which was a killer. After a few months spent in Australia for winter I was not at all accustomed to the heat and humidity in Singapore! I crawled to the finish and took the rest of the day to cool down!

Once everyone had made it back to our base tent and had a chance to recover it was time for the presentations. Each of the event sponsors were presented with a trophy in recognition of their support. Whilst final calculations were being made as to which teams won each section of the competition, it was my turn to receive the cheque on behalf of Mitrataa. I went up on stage and was excited enough when Ian Garrard from Wiley told me that they had aimed to raise SG$15,000 this year. However Ian then revealed that this year’s event had in fact raised SG$22,000 (over AU$17,000)! I was completely blown away. What an amazing effort!

I gave a thank you speech including a little bit of news about 1 girl in particular, one of our Dream Catchers scholars, as an illustration of the impact education can have on the lives of women and girls in Nepal. This was followed by the medal presentation. It was great to see that so many people had obviously been training hard in preparation for the event and it clearly had a positive impact on morale within the company.

So the next morning it was back to Kathmandu for me so that Bec, I and our team here could start plans on how best to use this donation. We are immensely grateful to everyone at Wiley and their partners for this support. Thank you to all who made it happen and those who took part! Looking forward to next year…

Children's Day @ the Dream Centres

Tuesday, 14^th September was Children’s Day in Nepal and at both Dream Centres it was time to celebrate.

I visited the Baneshwor Centre with a volunteer from Scotland, Katya, and her daughter Clover. The girls at the centre first had a discussion about child rights and some of the things they need to know in order to keep themselves safe in the sometimes difficult situations teenage girls face in Nepal. It was a very interesting discussion for us and a sobering reminder of the challenges faced by girls in the developing world.

The discussion was followed by a quiz contest which brought out the competitive streaks in the girls! I was invited to ask some questions but was unable to trip them up as someone even knew the capital city of Australia was Canberra (most people here think it is Sydney!). Clover delivered chocolates to all the girls for their correct answers.

Some of the girls then sang songs for the group that they had been working on. This was a wonderful display of their improved confidence. Then it was time for the real fun to begin with the whole group singing and dancing.

At the Wiley Dream Centre in Chandol, Bec attended the party with the other half of our Scottish volunteer team, Rufus and Fern. There the girls had each prepared a short speech about some aspect of child rights which they presented to the group. As always it was touching to see girls so young talking about issues of abuse and exploitation, often from personal experience.

It was then time for the ‘candle game’. Candles are placed around the edge of a table and each person must try to light all of them with just one match. Ok, so this probably wouldn’t pass OH&S policy at home but the girls had a lot of fun trying, Fern even had a go!

As with the Baneshwor Centre, the final activity on the program was a round of singing and dancing! A fitting way to end a day of celebration for these amazing girls.

More photos from the day can be found at our facebook page.

Thanks for volunteering Amy!

Amy Valender has recently completed a 3 month program working as a volunteer for us in Kathmandu. Amy is a nutritionist from the UK and came to know about Mitrataa through Bec when they both worked for Cadbury. Volunteering was something Amy had always wanted to do and nutrition is an area that needs a lot of support in Nepal so it was a perfect match!


We kept Amy extremely busy for the 3 months covering a variety of projects including:

• teaching English, Health and Science at our Model School;
• working with the staff in the Model School's hostel to ensure the boarding students are being fed healthy, nutritious food every meal of the day;
• running an English speaking program for some of our Dream Catchers Scholarship girls who had been struggling with their English studies;
• tutoring the girls attending our Dream Centres in English, Health, Science and also leading them in some art and craft activities and life skills programs;
• running some activities with the girls from the Project Snow Leopard program;
• working with girls at the children's home at Bal Mandir to establish a Child Club; and
• observing and advising management and staff of the children's home at Bal Mandir on healthy, nutritious and affordable dietary options for feeding the 210 children living there.

The feedback we have received from our partners, staff and of course the girls in Nepal has been overwhelming and Amy obviously made a huge impact on many people's lives. For this we are very thankful and do hope Amy might decide to return one day soon...


For anyone interested in sharing some of your skills and experience with the women and girls in Nepal and in return experiencing a piece of life that will change your outlook forever, email us.

Thank you so much Amy!

Dream Centres' First Birthday!

On 5th July we celebrated a great milestone for Mitrataa - the first birthday of our Dream Centres project. It is one year since our pilot centre opened in New Baneshwor in Kathmandu and what an amazing journey it has been. The second Dream Centre, sponsored by John Wiley & Sons, was opened in December last year.

To celebrate the day both centres held functions involving both existing and past students of the centre. In the lead up to the event all of the current and past students of the centres were asked to write a letter to the future students of the centre telling them about their experiences and the things they had learned from completing the skills for learning, skills for life program. These letters were placed in a box and will be given to girls who attend the centres in the future to read. A couple of girls read their letters to the group on the anniversary day and it was great to see their improved confidence in presenting as well as hearing their own personal thoughts on the program. 

In addition to the letter reading the girls performed some dances and played games that had been organised by the Dream Centre facilitators. This included quite a few rounds of the very popular hangman! The girls at the Baneshwor centre also did some paintings which were then used to decorate the centre.

The day provided a wonderful opportunity to reflect on the great progress the Dream Centre project has made, all of which couldn't have been done without our fantastic tutors and management staff in Nepal - thanks guys! The third and fourth centres, sponsored by MLC School and another by Wiley, are being prepared right now with the next opening scheduled for October so stay tuned...

New Dream Centre session begins!

With the new school year now in full swing both Dream Centres have just started their next sessions. Around 20 girls have started at the pilot Centre in Baneshwor and the Wiley Centre in Chandol, embarking on their journey of 'skills for learning, skills for life'.


The last session proved a huge success with all girls attending both centres passing all of their exams and being promoted to the next class at school! We are looking forward to similar results this time around thanks to the dedication and support of our Centre facilitators.


Good luck girls!

Girls attending the Pilot Centre in Baneshwor.

Girls attending the Wiley Dream Centre in Chandol.